All About Comet

Last Revised: 09/08/2023

It has always been a challenge for me to communicate with others. Talking with people, especially someone new, is very challenging to me. So do not let my inability to be social deter you from chatting with me. But that aside, one of the larger issues I have is when asked “What are you into?”. You would think that would be an easy answer, but for me, my generic reply is along the lines of “bondage and torment”. That is actually not very detailed I realize, but that is what comes out when trying to socialize. So I decided to put together an ever growing list of things I am into and add some context to them. I feel this is SO much easier to hand to someone as it gives conversation starters.

If I sent you this page cause you asked what I am into, do not take it as me not being interested, but more so actually being very interested. This page is designed to give you as much detail of what all I am and am not into. Feel free to discuss or question anything you see on this page. More so, definitely feel free to question and talk about things that are not on here, as that would likely be something I could add for future conversations.

My Hobbies:

First, let me go over some interests of mine aside from kink:

  • Computers/Technology:
    • I have been building/working on computers and electrical devices since I was maybe 4 years old.
    • I attended college for a couple years majoring in the field of Computer Science / Information Technology. Sadly I did not finish with a degree due to financial hardships, and today do not see myself going back to finish as I see no benefit in it to further my career.
  • Coding / Programming:
    • Up through college, I hated the idea of programming. Technically still do.
    • The ironic part is my career I am in, I am a programmer for Building Automation Systems. Sad when you think about it, but funny at the same time.
    • I will not say I know any programming language, cause I technically do not. But I have been exposed and use the following regularly:
      • Visual Logic / DDC
      • C++
      • Lua
  • Automation / Security Systems:
    • I like putting together technology / computer programming to build automation systems. I do building automations professionally for work, but I also like putting together simple automation systems at home.
    • Also like using Arduino controllers.
    • Professionally, I install and program building automation systems mostly in commercial applications. Projects such as High Rise Offices or small office buildings, but not limited to those.
    • I also love putting together security systems, including surveillance systems.
  • Boating:
    • I grew up boating.
    • I do presently live on a houseboat.
    • I am not a fan of the hot outdoors, but that’s a benefit in houseboats, being out on the lake, and still having air conditioning. XD
  • Movies / TV Shows:
    • I am a huge Disney movie person.
    • Sci-Fi TV shows are what interests me most.
  • Gaming:
    • I am into Simulation Style Games.
    • Flight Sim
    • City Building (Sim City / Cities Skylines)
    • Minecraft – I host a modded Minecraft server building a city and using mods to bring tech / electricity into the building of the city.
  • Website Hosting / Building:
    • I do build / host websites as a side job/hobby.
    • Not a great graphics designer, but I do build functional database engines and information filled websites.
  • Photography / Filmography:
    • I have been trying to develop some skills in photography and Filmography.
    • Have a pretty good collection of equipment from DSLR cameras, streaming cameras, and drones.
    • Not an expert or professional by any means, but have impressed myself with how far I have come in editing.
    • Do have an interest in Streaming and Short Films, but lack the content to do so.
  • Weather:
    • I absolutely love hunting and tracking storms.
    • When anything severe is near, I get in full storm hunting mode and will sit here and track storms until it has past.

Now for the After Dark stuff…

Quick Overview

Here is a short list of everything, both limits and interests, below all this will be the same thing with more details:

Limits

  • Random Hookups
  • Face Pics
  • Picture Sharing
  • Scat
  • Blood
  • Permanent Marks
  • Kissing
  • Ass Eating/Licking
  • Food

Requirements

  • Sensory Deprivation
  • Bondage
  • Medical Knowledge
  • Tracking

Kinks and Turn-ons

  • Bondage
  • Sensory Deprivation
  • Nipple Play
  • Suspension
  • Chastity
  • Boots/Shoes
  • Breath Control
  • Uniforms
  • Group Play
  • Kidnapping
  • Impact Play
  • Intoxication/Impairment
  • Flogging
  • Wax Play
  • Pup Play
  • Anal Play
  • Aromas
  • Oral Play
  • Electro Play
  • Needles
  • Diaper / Little Play
  • Sounding
  • Catheters
  • Water Sports
  • Body Modifications

My Limits

While I am generally open to trying anything at least once before determining it’s not for me, I do unfortunately have a couple hard limits I would prefer to not be pushed into, and they are as follows:

  • Random Hookups:
    • I do not do random hookups.
    • I am open to chatting and discussing interests, but will not plan to meet up with someone I do not know.
    • This is very unsafe and stupid.
    • If meeting up is an interest to you, please take the time to get to know me, and let me get a chance to know you before hooking up.
    • Believe me when I say, I want to be tied up and tormented/used, but my safety and well-being is much more important than playing.
  • Face Pics:
    • I do not like pics being taken of my face at any time.
    • When in gear, I am all open to having pics taken so long as my face is not seen in the pic. A Pup hood, blindfold, or deprivation hood covering my face is acceptable.
    • I will not share a face pic of myself to someone I just met, have just started talking to, or someone I do not yet trust.
    • I will send a face pic when requested once a level of trust has been made and prior to meeting in person when requested.
    • This is both a confidence issue, as well as maintaining a level of professionalism outside of kink.
    • Please do not be that person to ask on first conversation and getting upset cause I wont share.
  • Picture Sharing:
    • Please do not share pictures of me without first getting my permission.
    • I am generally open to having my pics shared. However, depending on what we get into, I may not want certain pictures being shared.
    • I love having sessions photographed or filmed. All I ask is that I have a chance to see the images/videos before they are shared publicly.
  • Scat: Also known as Feces, shit, crap, but overall known as poop.
    • HARD LIMIT
    • I understand with Anal play there is a chance of this coming to being, that is not a big deal. Clean it up and move on.
  • Blood: The drawing of or exchanging of blood.
    • With the interest of certain kinks, it is possible blood may reveal itself. It is my intention to not ever intentionally draw blood. If certain kinks listed on this page could end up drawing blood, I expect a clear understanding between myself and all involved as to how to handle hygiene and cleanup.
  • Permanent Marks: This includes Bruises, cuts, burns, etc.
    • Any scene I am involved in, I want to come out of safe and unharmed. I do not want any marks that wont go away in a short period of time to show after leaving a scene.
    • This does not include marks like the marks of rope after a nice long bondage session, but I do not want those marks to linger and still be present a day or two down the road, even more so marks that are not easily covered by shorts and a t-shirt.
  • Kissing:
    • I have never been interested in kissing and would prefer it not being part of a session I am in.
    • This is more so geared towards the face.
    • When bound, if you are interested, my entire body is open to being kissed, however, please do not kiss me on the face.
  • Ass Eating / Licking:
    • Please do not put my face in an ass.
    • I have no interest in this.
    • However, my ass is completely open to whatever interests you.
  • Food:
    • I am a very picky eater. Like severely picky.
    • Please do not make me eat or drink anything without prior discussion.
    • Water obviously is fine, as it may be required.

My Requirements:

In order for me to enjoy a session, I do have a few requirements. Feel free to question and discuss these requirements with me, as I am not completely strict on these, but suggest them in order to have the most fun.

  • Sensory Deprivation:
    • Blindfold / Deprivation Hood
    • Something to cover my face in general. Seeing what is going on while it is happening, or seeing who is tormenting/playing with me, seeing anyone watching me, etc. tends to stir up anxiety and makes me uncomfortable. Being blindfolded I have found takes that discomfort away and allows me to enjoy a scene.
  • Bondage:
    • I love to be restrained. If I am not being forced to do something, its not that fun to me.
    • If you want to have fun with me, and me have fun at the same time, please bind me up and force me to do things or restrain me so I can not stop you from having your way with me.
  • Medical Knowledge:
    • An understanding of first aid and life saving skills/actions.
    • Accidents can happen. Basic first aid is simple and not too much to ask for.
    • Depending on what we get into, an understanding of what to do if something happens is expected.
    • I do have pretty bad anxiety. Nothing really on your end to deal with it, just an understanding that I could have an anxiety/panic attack. The only thing you would need to do is pause/end a session so I can calm down and recover. This is rare that this happens. Most of the time I am having way too much fun that even having an anxiety attack isn’t a problem to me. Just see me shaking or breathing weird, but am usually completely fine.
    • My well being is TOP priority to me. If there is something wrong, I will communicate with you. If its nothing major or life threatening, I may not communicate it as I am having fun despite it.
  • Tracking:
    • I have a very loving partner.
    • He likes to know where I am, and also like to check on my well being, more so in longer sessions.
    • Anywhere I go, he must know where and a rough estimate on timing.
    • I generally take care of all that information before hand, so action on your part is not usually involved. Just know he will know where I am.
    • If he decides to call me, I will either need it answered, or for a session to be paused so I can answer/call back.
    • This is unlikely to happen unless there is an emergency, as he knows where I am going and a rough time frame.

My Kinks and Turn-ons

Now to the fun stuff. Note that the kinks listed below are not necessarily the only things I am into. I am an experimentalist in that I am willing to try almost anything at least once to determine if I am into it or can take it. However, I do find it considerate for anyone with an interest that is not listed here, or maybe a detail missing on what is listed here, to ask and talk about it. It is possible I have an interest in something I didn’t even know about, and the only way for me to inform you if an interest exists is to talk to me. Plus, I need to update this page if something new interests me.

Something also to note, if there is something in this list you do not like, do not want to get into, or have anything to do with, that is totally fine! I don’t push anything onto anyone if they are not interested. If something in this list is something you don’t want to see or have anything to do with, just let me know before a session and I will keep it completely out! No need to ruin chances of meeting up for fun or being friends just cause I like something you don’t! 😉

  • BONDAGE:
    • If there is any one thing I want, it is bondage.
    • The idea of loosing control of parts or all of my body is the biggest turn on I have.
    • From Lite Bondage to Heavy bondage.
    • When I am bound, I am vulnerable to what happens next. I have not found a limit to how far I am able to go with bondage, and would like to experience more heavy bondage than what I have already been exposed to.
    • Simply put, the more restrained I am, the more fun things can be.
    • I strongly encourage the use of bondage in every session I am involved in. This is mostly due to my anxiety. I can have pretty bad anxiety at times that typically causes me to miss out on a LOT of things. It does upset me a lot to miss out on things simply because I am having anxiety issues. When bondage is applied, my anxiety seems to disappear for the most part, which is what allows me to have so much fun playing with others.
    • Straight Jackets, Chains, Sleep-sacks, suspension, bondage chairs, bondage tables, bed bondage, chains, handcuffs, leg cuffs, mitts, gags, are some of the many different options for bondage that I am into. Feel free to ask me if something isn’t listed here, more so I can add it.
  • Sensory Deprivation:
    • Sensory Deprivation for me includes tools that takes away the senses of the body.
    • This includes Sight, Sound, touch, etc.
    • Can be something as lite as a blindfold, to as heavy as a full head enclosure such as a Deprivation Hood.
    • Referring back to the bondage section, as bondage helps with my anxiety, Sensory Deprivation near eliminates my anxiety. So much that I kind of have to require some level of deprivation in order to fully enjoy a session.
  • Nipple Play:
    • If you want to see me moan or squirm, my nipples are the way to go.
    • Teasing and tormenting my nipples is a sure way to get me hard. I generally have the most fun being tied up and having my nipples tormented for hours.
    • Nipple clamps, clothes pins, or just simply pinching my nipples are all ways I love to have my nips tormented.
    • I have experienced electro on my nipples, i honestly am slightly scared by it, but if done safely, is a fun experience.
    • I have also had Nettles used on my nipples and have had a blast! Though I can not use Nettles anywhere else on my body.
    • If you want to see me struggle, work on my nipples, make them sensitive, and then tease and torment them. Just be sure you have me restrained so that I cant stop you from the torment! ^_^
  • Suspension:
    • I haven’t had the chance to do any suspension play.
    • I am interested in experimenting and trying different forms of suspension.
    • Lets discuss before hand what all is involved.
  • Chastity:
    • I have had a good bit of experience with chastity, but haven’t found a good cage that is comfortable for long-term wearing.
    • The longest I have gone in a chastity cage has been right around a month.
    • The part of Chastity that interests me most is being locked so I can not touch/play with myself, but regularly being tied up and unlocked so that I can be edged, but restrained so I still can not touch or play with myself, then locked back on before being unbound.
    • The only problem I have with chastity is keeping clean. Either I have not found a way to properly clean myself while in a cage, or I just haven’t found the right cage.
    • I am definitely into being forced to be locked in a cage at events or during sessions.
    • Outside of events and scenes, I do not particularly like being caged without access to remove it, mostly due to the fact I have not found a cage I can comfortably wear and keep clean with. I usually end up with an irritation that usually gets pretty bad, or the cage just hurts to the point I have to remove it.
    • I am willing to try different cages, and actually am interested in long-term wear if I can find a cage I like.
  • Boots / Shoes:
    • Shoes are kind of a hidden fetish of mine. I don’t generally talk about it much to other people. This is because I do feel embarrassed about it to an extent. I don’t exactly know why I feel embarrassed about it. But in a nut shell, I like shoes. I like wearing shoes, I like being told what to wear, I like being forced to wear other’s shoes.
    • I don’t particularly like the idea of smelling shoes, or more so licking shoes.
    • I am a bit particular about the shoes I like and wear. In general, I like Athletic shoes that are Hi-Tops. My interests don’t stop there in terms of style of shoes, but that generally covers it.
    • Adidas, Nike, Jordan’s, Converse, New Balance are just some of the brands of shoes I really like.
    • I do have a collection of over 100 pairs of shoes last I counted. Pretty sure I have a lot more than that now, but haven’t made it to counting them recently. 😛
    • Actually like the idea of having a pair of shoes locked on me forcing me to wear them for an extended period of time.
    • I do also like boots. Not just any kind of boots though. I like combat / swat style boots. The kinds you would see in the military or police scenes.
    • I have also found it fun to put J-Lube in shoes/boots and wear them for a period of time. The feel of the lube while wearing shoes/boots is something that turns me on for some reason. I honestly have no explanation for this. XD
    • I can say, though, dressy style shoes are actually a turn-off for me. Even casual-dress style shoes. That’s why I say Athletic style shoes because that area of style is generally where my interests are.
    • I am also willing to wear shoes to break them in and then return them to their owners. For those who like to smell shoes or whatever, I am happy to take in your shoes and wear them for a period of time and then return them. Heck, I will even cum or pee in them if that is something you desire. However, please ask me if I am interested, cause I can’t say I am into all the styles of shoes out there, and there are some I wont wear.
    • I am a size 10.5 Male US, and can comfortably fit in anything generally between a 9 and 11. Just depends on the brand of shoe.
    • Definitely make me wear your shoes during a scene!
    • Please do not mix this up with feet. While I do have a paws fetish, I don’t actually have any interests in feet. However, feel free to use me as a foot stool to prop those shoes you might be wearing on me. 😛
  • Breath Control:
    • Huff! Just huff!
    • If there is anything that would make me cum without stroking or edging it would be breath control. That hasn’t happened yet, but I feel that would be the one thing that would cause that to happen. XD
    • I am very much into Breath Control. I am good with getting as far as gasping for air close to the point of passing out and have had a blast. Unfortunately I also have very little experience in this area just because of the few people I know and trust who is into this.
    • Breath Control for me is most fun with re-breathing. Re-breathing the same air to the point the body is forcing short and fast breaths starving for fresh air, and then the release and exposure to the fresh air and taking those long deep breaths, only to repeat and repeat over and over again until the body is just worn out.
    • Since this is a delicate area in terms of dangers involved, I do require that anyone involved with me doing breath control knows basic first aid and CPR, simply because you never know what can happen. Breath Control can be so much fun, but if something happens and someone doesn’t know what to do, can make this disastrous.
    • To be more specific on what kinds of breath control I like, I like to re-breath. Put a bag over my head, gas mask with an attachable bag, etc and let me be to breath until I am struggling for fresh air. Other forms I am okay with but don’t find to be as much fun would be actually cutting off the ability to breath. Be that with something tight over my head, pressing your hand against my face, etc. It’s still fun for me, but not nearly as fun as re-breathing.
    • The interest is being Hanged is open for discussion. I have not ever tried this, but it does strike an interest to try.
  • Uniforms:
    • I do enjoy military and police uniforms.
    • Mostly the combat uniforms.
    • I do not know all the terminology/names pertaining to what kind of uniforms.
    • In general, I am into being in Military Combat gear or Police Swat Gear.
    • Feel free to chat with me for more details.
    • I am not involved or part of any police or military organization. I simply like the gear and uniforms.
  • Group Play:
    • I am interested in being part of a group event, but only as a sub, and preferably bound and blindfolded.
    • I am open to being used by other people, in terms of bondage and torment, or just being filled with cum.
    • I do require a handler who would be responsible for ensuring I am safe and my limits are being honored, but also to escort me around to the parties and events.
  • Kidnapping:
    • Kidnapping me and taking me off to the middle of nowhere and keeping me bound and even torturing me is a huge turn on.
    • Of course, I can’t blindly be kidnapped.
    • Some planning and discussion ahead of time is something that is required. This is for safety reasons.
    • The planning can be dealt through my Alpha or Partner that way I have no clue what is happening, but I will have a sense of I am actually safe and not actually life at risk.
  • Impact Play:
    • I have a small interest in impact play, but no experience to say if I am able to handle much.
    • Discussion before hand is requested.
  • Intoxication/Impairment:
    • Discussion before hand is required.
    • Being intoxicated/drunk or being High does add to any scene, and I am willing to experiment around in this area.
    • Nothing Illegal. Period.
    • Can be in forms of drinking, drugs, or inhalants.
  • Flogging:
    • Remember my hard limits of leaving permanent marks.
    • I do have an interest in being flogged.
    • I have been flogged a few times and have really enjoyed it.
    • Of course, being bound is the only way to go about being flogged, so make sure I am bound tight.
    • An understanding of where it is safe and not safe to flog is expected.
    • I am not, however, interested in being whipped. That is just too much pain for me, I would not enjoy it at all.
  • Wax Play:
    • Wax play is tons of fun for me, especially when bound and can’t stop it.
    • I do request that any wax play not be too hot to leave any burn marks, and remain external.
  • Pup Play:
    • In case you didn’t know, I am a Pup. ^_^
    • I like causing trouble and tormenting my Beta.
    • The pup inside me, however, tends to only come out with gear, thus I consider myself a Gear Pup. While my inner pup has shown itself more than once without the use of gear, gear is generally the key for me.
    • I like belly rubs, wagging my tail, and being on a leash.
    • Of course there is also cuddles and playing around, but that should be a given.
  • Anal Play:
    • Okay, so, I haven’t done a ton of anal play with others, but if it is safe, more than welcome to shove it up my hole.
    • I am very well stretchable down there. I can take quite a bit in terms of size, both length and width, if I have stretched out a bit before hand.
    • I usually, several times a week, will take an inflatable plug I have and just sit and use it to stretch out. It both feels amazing and helps widen the hole of mine to take a lot more. But stretching aside, I love the feeling of being filled and stuffed past that point, which is where inflatable plugs are tons of fun for me. This is also another way to make me moan and struggle. 😛
    • I am happy to take any dildos, plugs, etc.
    • I have attempted fisting. Only happened once and I liked it. Would be happy to do more of it.
    • It terms of sex. I would like to keep things safe. If you have recently been tested negative for all sexually transmitted diseases, then you are safe. Otherwise, I do require protection. Unfortunately, if you have tested positive, i do want to restrict any sexual activities. HOWEVER, just cause you test positive doesn’t mean we can’t play. There is still bondage and torment that I am open to. Just cant do anything that would transmit any diseases. I am not into the transmission and spreading of diseases.
    • I am also open for enemas and filling up my hole with liquids or solids. Foods included. Discussion before hand would be ideal.
    • Just a fair warning, I have been told I am a sucker of souls. Not exactly sure how, but that’s what I have been told. If you care about your soul, all I got to say is watch out! XD
  • Aromas:
    • Poppers, whip-its, etc.
    • Not much to go into talking on this one. I am fine using liquid aromas and such. I find using them helps me take a lot more torment and a lot more anal as well.
    • My Favorite Aroma is Super Rush or Jungle Juice Platinum, but open to other aromas.
  • Oral Play:
    • This includes anything that would go in my mouth.
    • Can include gags, dildos, or dicks.
    • All I ask is that anything shoved in my mouth is clean and safe. Dildos I would prefer to have not been up someone’s butt, but if thoroughly cleaned and disinfected, should be fine.
    • If I get comfortable with you, which takes time for me, I have a tendency to be smart with you. That’s just my inner pup. Feel free to gag me to shut me up. 😛
  • Electro Play:
    • Whew, electro play…….definitely a turn on, but have found it can be very intense.
    • Open to electro play, but is something that I would prefer to pre-plan, at least at first, just so it is more worked into rather than a torture method.
    • I find starting off easy is the way to go, then slowly working up to more intense levels. Sudden spikes of intensity usually isn’t as pleasurable for me and just becomes something to bare rather than have fun with.
    • Definitely prefer nothing at or above the chest, unless discussed before hand. I do care about my body and do not wish to risk issues. Overall, if done safely, I am open to a large variety of Electro options.
  • Needles:
    • Definitely an interest I am wanting to pursue.
    • Despite an interest, I still refer to the Hard Limit of Blood and Permanent Marks. While these are hard limits, I understand that needle play may result in the drawing of blood or leaving marks. Discussion before hand is required before any needle play is allowed.
    • I have no experience in needle play, but would love to meet someone who is into it and has experience to learn and discuss possibly trying needle play.
    • The interests I have are ball draining, and saline injections into the ball sack. Interests are not limiting to only these.
  • Diaper / Little Play:
    • I do like to wear diapers.
    • I do not particularly identify myself as a “Little”, but I do have the personality of a Little which shows it’self way too often.
    • I will not use the diaper to poop in. That falls under my hard limits.
    • I don’t mind someone else filling up my diaper. I haven’t tried this yet, but the idea sounds hot!
    • I have used J-Lube in place of baby-powder. After a couple hours, definitely hard to not find a stiff bone in there. 😛
  • Sounding:
    • Sounding is another interest of mine.
    • Any play involving catheters MUST be clean and as sterile as possible.
    • I have a small amount of experience playing with sounding, and would like to try and experiment with more.
  • Catheters:
    • I am interested in the use of catheters.
    • Any play involving catheters MUST be clean and as sterile as possible.
    • I am presently experimenting with different sized catheters to determine one that suits me the best for extended wear.
    • I suspect I have a slight latex allergy, but not severe enough to eliminate the use of latex. More so a suggestion to use silicon catheters, but to date, I have only used Latex/Foley catheters.
  • Water Sports:
    • This is something I am willing to experiment with. I have not ever seen myself into Water Sports, but I have found watching others does spike an interest.
    • I am open to trying this with someone I trust. Probably not at first with someone new unless discussed before hand.
    • I am worried that drinking pee will make me sick. But again, haven’t tried it.
    • There isn’t much more for me to explain under this mostly cause I have not been in a session involving Water Sports.
    • Open for discussing this option, for sure!
  • Body Modifications:
    • Before continuing to read, please note my hard limits at the top of this page.
    • I am interested in the idea of being bound and forced to receive piercings and/or tattoos.
    • HOWEVER… I do not want any modifications unless it is a modification I approve of.
    • Discussion before hand is a must!
    • Currently, I have a PA and am interest in having both my nipples pierced.
    • I am not set on getting these yet, but because I have an interest in them and would consider getting them, if I had the option to get them while bound would be a very tempting offer.
    • Of course, this is only doable with someone who is a professional in giving these modifications.
    • I am currently not set on any tattoo ideas, but open to ideas and discussion.

JUST BECAUSE IT’S NOT LISTED DOES NOT MEAN I AM NOT WILLING TO TRY!

This statement is EXTREMELY true to me. I can only write down what I can think about. Being an experimentalist, I am willing to try most things unless they are already listed as a Hard Limit.

Now I did say MOST things. This does not mean I will try anything. Just ask me. It’s easier to ask me than to find out through a ruined session. I do not judge! I want you to ask me of things you may be interested in that I have not ever mentioned or shown an interest in. If I am not interested in something, I will simply say so. A disinterest in something wont ruin your chances of getting to play or be friends with me.

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE!!!!! Let me know if I can elaborate on anything here. Even if it is not listed here, I want to list it! So please ask me if anything sparks a question or if you are into something that is not listed here. I will kindly respond and add to this page.